Pengalaman Menikahkan Orang di Depan Jenazah Sang Ibu
Mohammad Wildan Kurniawan Selasa, 18-6-2024 | - Dilihat: 106
Oleh: Mohammad Wildan Kurniawan
Satu pengalaman yang mungkin akan sulit lepas dari memori saya adalah melaksanakan pernikahan di hadapan jenazah. Anda tidak salah baca, karena yang saya tulis ini juga dialami beberapa rekan sejawat saya sesama Penghulu, wa bil khusus yang tinggal di daerah Cilacap-Banyumas.
Sudah tidak terhitung saya menghadiri proses ijab qobul model begini. Dan pengalaman pertama menjadi yang paling istimewa. Mengapa istimewa? Akan saya ceritakan sedikit di pembuka tulisan ini.
Selama ratusan kali saya hadir di majelis akad nikah, hampir semua hadirin memasang wajah bersuka cita. Senyuman bertaburan di mana-mana. Pakaian bagus, necis dan wangi, dekorasi yang indah, hidangan yang menggugah selera adalah pemandangan umum sebuah pesta pernikahan.
Dalam kondisi sedang berduka, akad nikah menjadi tidak seperti biasanya alias sedikit istimewa. Di momen ini, senyuman kebahagiaan menjadi barang asing. Iringan musik berganti dengan isak tangis keluarga.
Kotak amplop calon pengantin dan orangtua, menjadi kotak amplop yang berduka. Sakinah mawadah wa rahmah bergantian dilisankan bersama dengan kalimat semoga tabah dan insyaallah husnul khatimah.
Para pelayat merangkap menjadi saksi pernikahan. Sebelum memulai akad nikah, saya memastikan tidak ada pihak keluarga yang keberatan. Semua harus menjawab setuju tanpa paksaan.
Saat itu, pengantin wanita hadir di majelis akad, bersandar di tembok dekat keranda tempat almarhumah ibunya dibaringkan. Wali nikah, 2 orang saksi, dan calon pengantin laki-laki duduk mengelilingi meja tempat berkas dan mas kawin diletakkan.
“Hadirin yang berbahagia,” ucapan reflek saya malam itu. Seperti kilat menyambar, saya baru ingat akad nikah ini tidak sama dengan pernikahan yang lalu-lalu. Beberapa pasang mata yang awalnya menunduk, kemudian menatap saya sekejap, kemudian menunduk kembali. Saya baru sadar, dari pada berbahagia, di sini mungkin lebih banyak yang berduka. Kalimat sapaan ini harus saya revisi, “Hadirin yang dimuliakan Allah SWT.” Begitu seterusnya.
Tepat sesaat akad dilisankan, pecahlah tangis beberapa hadirin yang hadir. Segera saya tutup majelis, tidak lupa saya sampaikan untaian belasungkawa dan doa terbaik untuk almarhum dan keluarga yang ditinggalkan.
Hukum Mempercepat Prosesi Akad Nikah karena Ada Keluarga Dekat yang Meninggal Dunia
Saya menelusuri sebab musabab tradisi ini ada di masyarakat tempat saya bertugas. Bahwa ternyata, ada pemahaman di antara warga jika seseorang sudah mendaftarkan pernikahannya di KUA, dan sudah menentukan tanggal menikahnya, kemudian ada keluarga dekatnya yang meninggal, jika tidak dinikahkan sebelum jenazah dimakamkan, maka pernikahan mereka baru bisa digelar lepas tahun -hijriah- berganti. Istilahnya ganti tahun.
Kalau nekat menikah di tahun yang sama dengan tahun meninggalnya kerabat tersebut, menurut kepercayaan sebagian pihak, pernikahan yang dilakukan berpotensi mendatangkan berbagai keburukan. Baik bagi pasangan yang menikah, maupun orangtua atau kerabat lainnya.
Keburukan yang dimaksud beragam. Mulai dari rumah tangga penuh masalah, rezeki yang tidak lapang, sakit misterius yang urung sembuh, hingga yang paling parah adalah kematian mendadak.
Nah, bagaimana Islam melihat peristiwa ini? Begini, perihal akad nikah yang dilakukan, selama semua rukun dan syarat nikah terpenuhi, hukumnya adalah sah. Syariat Islam pun mengatur hal-hal yang perlu disegerakan. Salat jika tiba waktunya, menikah jika telah tampak jodohnya, memakamkan jenazah jika telah tiba ajalnya, juga membayar hutang saat sudah mempunyai kemampuan.
Tapi, apakah dengan adanya syariat ini kemudian Islam membenarkan praktik mempercepat pernikahan sebelum jenazah kerabat dimakamkan? Nanti dulu, bagi saya masalah pokoknya bukan pada praktik nikahnya, bukan pula pada maju atau tidak jadwal akadnya, tetapi pada pemahaman masyarakat yang ada di sekeliling praktik nikah tersebut.
Semisal, masyarakat berkeyakinan pasangan ini apabila tidak dinikahkan, maka harus berganti tahun. Jika tetap menikah di tahun yang sama dengan kematian keluarga dekatnya, maka sesuatu yang kurang baik dapat menimpa pasangan tersebut.
Apalagi dengan adanya kepercayaan tentang “takdir buruk” yang melekat jika pelaksanaan nikah tetep kekeuh dilangsungkan tanpa menunggu pergantian tahun. Pertanyaan saya, dari mana munculnya prediksi “takdir buruk” itu? Apakah lantas jika betul yang dikhawatirkan terjadi adalah akibat dari praktik adat yang tidak dilaksanakan?
Begini, keluar dari konteks syariat, saya ingin mengajak Anda membayangkan suasana suka cita dicampur dengan rasa duka dalam satu wadah yang sama. Bayangkan Anda hadir di sana.
Pernikahan sebagai momen kebahagiaan yang sakral, miitsaaqan ghaliida, perjanjian agung yang menggetarkan Arasy, bercampur dengan isak tangis keluarga dalam duka kematian. Saya sendiri yang terlibat dalam prosesi acara kehabisan kalimat untuk mendeskripsikannya. Dalam satu momen, saya menyampaikan selamat berbahagia, namun sekaligus turut berduka cita.
Bagi saya, di sinilah sejatinya salah satu ujian keimanan seorang muslim. Bahwa jodoh, rezeki dan kematian adalah suratan takdir yang dapat menimpa siapa saja sesuai dengan kehendak Sang Pencipta. Yang harus kita lakukkan adalah mengusahakan yang terbaik dan berbaik sangka atas segala ketetapan-Nya.
Jika tidak, keyakinan terhadap “takdir buruk” yang disematkan dalam suatu praktik adat tertentu berpotensi sebagai bentuk kita melangkahi ketetapan Sang Pencipta. Ini yang bahaya. Nauzubillah.
Menjalani Adat Sesuai dengan Porsinya
Agama manapun tidak alergi terhadap tradisi, termasuk Islam. Dengan catatan, tradisi yang dilakukan tidaklah bertentangan dengan syariat juga tidak mencederai akidah. Tradisi yang dilestarikan juga tidak menjerumuskan dalam praktik yang menyulitkan dan memberatkan pelakunya. Tradisi yang dikerjakan haruslah tetap mendatangkan kebaikan dan maslahat untuk manusia secara umum, bukan golongan tertentu saja.
Termasuk praktik menikah dalam pembahasan di tulisan ini. Apabila kedua keluarga calon mempelai sepakat dan tidak keberatan dengan tradisi ini, niscaya pernikahan masih dapat terselamatkan. Tetapi jika dengan adanya praktik adat ini membuat satu pihak merasa tidak nyaman, janggal dan tidak sreg secara nurani, maka potensi konflik antara kedua keluarga calon mempelai sangat mungkin terjadi.
Dalam kasus ini, Anda termasuk yang mana? Menikah sesuai jadwal kesepakatan awal dan berprasangka baik kepada Allah, atau memajukan akad nikah sebelum jenazah dimakamkan?
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Pengalaman Menikahkan Orang di Depan Jenazah Sang Ibu
Mohammad Wildan Kurniawan Selasa, 18-6-2024 | - Dilihat: 106
Oleh: Mohammad Wildan Kurniawan
Satu pengalaman yang mungkin akan sulit lepas dari memori saya adalah melaksanakan pernikahan di hadapan jenazah. Anda tidak salah baca, karena yang saya tulis ini juga dialami beberapa rekan sejawat saya sesama Penghulu, wa bil khusus yang tinggal di daerah Cilacap-Banyumas.
Sudah tidak terhitung saya menghadiri proses ijab qobul model begini. Dan pengalaman pertama menjadi yang paling istimewa. Mengapa istimewa? Akan saya ceritakan sedikit di pembuka tulisan ini.
Selama ratusan kali saya hadir di majelis akad nikah, hampir semua hadirin memasang wajah bersuka cita. Senyuman bertaburan di mana-mana. Pakaian bagus, necis dan wangi, dekorasi yang indah, hidangan yang menggugah selera adalah pemandangan umum sebuah pesta pernikahan.
Dalam kondisi sedang berduka, akad nikah menjadi tidak seperti biasanya alias sedikit istimewa. Di momen ini, senyuman kebahagiaan menjadi barang asing. Iringan musik berganti dengan isak tangis keluarga.
Kotak amplop calon pengantin dan orangtua, menjadi kotak amplop yang berduka. Sakinah mawadah wa rahmah bergantian dilisankan bersama dengan kalimat semoga tabah dan insyaallah husnul khatimah.
Para pelayat merangkap menjadi saksi pernikahan. Sebelum memulai akad nikah, saya memastikan tidak ada pihak keluarga yang keberatan. Semua harus menjawab setuju tanpa paksaan.
Saat itu, pengantin wanita hadir di majelis akad, bersandar di tembok dekat keranda tempat almarhumah ibunya dibaringkan. Wali nikah, 2 orang saksi, dan calon pengantin laki-laki duduk mengelilingi meja tempat berkas dan mas kawin diletakkan.
“Hadirin yang berbahagia,” ucapan reflek saya malam itu. Seperti kilat menyambar, saya baru ingat akad nikah ini tidak sama dengan pernikahan yang lalu-lalu. Beberapa pasang mata yang awalnya menunduk, kemudian menatap saya sekejap, kemudian menunduk kembali. Saya baru sadar, dari pada berbahagia, di sini mungkin lebih banyak yang berduka. Kalimat sapaan ini harus saya revisi, “Hadirin yang dimuliakan Allah SWT.” Begitu seterusnya.
Tepat sesaat akad dilisankan, pecahlah tangis beberapa hadirin yang hadir. Segera saya tutup majelis, tidak lupa saya sampaikan untaian belasungkawa dan doa terbaik untuk almarhum dan keluarga yang ditinggalkan.
Hukum Mempercepat Prosesi Akad Nikah karena Ada Keluarga Dekat yang Meninggal Dunia
Saya menelusuri sebab musabab tradisi ini ada di masyarakat tempat saya bertugas. Bahwa ternyata, ada pemahaman di antara warga jika seseorang sudah mendaftarkan pernikahannya di KUA, dan sudah menentukan tanggal menikahnya, kemudian ada keluarga dekatnya yang meninggal, jika tidak dinikahkan sebelum jenazah dimakamkan, maka pernikahan mereka baru bisa digelar lepas tahun -hijriah- berganti. Istilahnya ganti tahun.
Kalau nekat menikah di tahun yang sama dengan tahun meninggalnya kerabat tersebut, menurut kepercayaan sebagian pihak, pernikahan yang dilakukan berpotensi mendatangkan berbagai keburukan. Baik bagi pasangan yang menikah, maupun orangtua atau kerabat lainnya.
Keburukan yang dimaksud beragam. Mulai dari rumah tangga penuh masalah, rezeki yang tidak lapang, sakit misterius yang urung sembuh, hingga yang paling parah adalah kematian mendadak.
Nah, bagaimana Islam melihat peristiwa ini? Begini, perihal akad nikah yang dilakukan, selama semua rukun dan syarat nikah terpenuhi, hukumnya adalah sah. Syariat Islam pun mengatur hal-hal yang perlu disegerakan. Salat jika tiba waktunya, menikah jika telah tampak jodohnya, memakamkan jenazah jika telah tiba ajalnya, juga membayar hutang saat sudah mempunyai kemampuan.
Tapi, apakah dengan adanya syariat ini kemudian Islam membenarkan praktik mempercepat pernikahan sebelum jenazah kerabat dimakamkan? Nanti dulu, bagi saya masalah pokoknya bukan pada praktik nikahnya, bukan pula pada maju atau tidak jadwal akadnya, tetapi pada pemahaman masyarakat yang ada di sekeliling praktik nikah tersebut.
Semisal, masyarakat berkeyakinan pasangan ini apabila tidak dinikahkan, maka harus berganti tahun. Jika tetap menikah di tahun yang sama dengan kematian keluarga dekatnya, maka sesuatu yang kurang baik dapat menimpa pasangan tersebut.
Apalagi dengan adanya kepercayaan tentang “takdir buruk” yang melekat jika pelaksanaan nikah tetep kekeuh dilangsungkan tanpa menunggu pergantian tahun. Pertanyaan saya, dari mana munculnya prediksi “takdir buruk” itu? Apakah lantas jika betul yang dikhawatirkan terjadi adalah akibat dari praktik adat yang tidak dilaksanakan?
Begini, keluar dari konteks syariat, saya ingin mengajak Anda membayangkan suasana suka cita dicampur dengan rasa duka dalam satu wadah yang sama. Bayangkan Anda hadir di sana.
Pernikahan sebagai momen kebahagiaan yang sakral, miitsaaqan ghaliida, perjanjian agung yang menggetarkan Arasy, bercampur dengan isak tangis keluarga dalam duka kematian. Saya sendiri yang terlibat dalam prosesi acara kehabisan kalimat untuk mendeskripsikannya. Dalam satu momen, saya menyampaikan selamat berbahagia, namun sekaligus turut berduka cita.
Bagi saya, di sinilah sejatinya salah satu ujian keimanan seorang muslim. Bahwa jodoh, rezeki dan kematian adalah suratan takdir yang dapat menimpa siapa saja sesuai dengan kehendak Sang Pencipta. Yang harus kita lakukkan adalah mengusahakan yang terbaik dan berbaik sangka atas segala ketetapan-Nya.
Jika tidak, keyakinan terhadap “takdir buruk” yang disematkan dalam suatu praktik adat tertentu berpotensi sebagai bentuk kita melangkahi ketetapan Sang Pencipta. Ini yang bahaya. Nauzubillah.
Menjalani Adat Sesuai dengan Porsinya
Agama manapun tidak alergi terhadap tradisi, termasuk Islam. Dengan catatan, tradisi yang dilakukan tidaklah bertentangan dengan syariat juga tidak mencederai akidah. Tradisi yang dilestarikan juga tidak menjerumuskan dalam praktik yang menyulitkan dan memberatkan pelakunya. Tradisi yang dikerjakan haruslah tetap mendatangkan kebaikan dan maslahat untuk manusia secara umum, bukan golongan tertentu saja.
Termasuk praktik menikah dalam pembahasan di tulisan ini. Apabila kedua keluarga calon mempelai sepakat dan tidak keberatan dengan tradisi ini, niscaya pernikahan masih dapat terselamatkan. Tetapi jika dengan adanya praktik adat ini membuat satu pihak merasa tidak nyaman, janggal dan tidak sreg secara nurani, maka potensi konflik antara kedua keluarga calon mempelai sangat mungkin terjadi.
Dalam kasus ini, Anda termasuk yang mana? Menikah sesuai jadwal kesepakatan awal dan berprasangka baik kepada Allah, atau memajukan akad nikah sebelum jenazah dimakamkan?
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2024-06-19 06:21:20
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2024-07-08 00:44:55
Deon Mosher
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2024-07-12 17:45:26
Eric Jones
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2024-07-14 21:06:15
Tracey Dollery
Hi to the anakpanah.id Owner. Awesome website! name’s Tracey, and I just came across your site - anakpanah.id - when browsing the net. Your site popped up on the top of the search results, so I looked you out. Looks like what you’re doing is amazing. But if you don’t mind me asking – once someone like me stumbles across anakpanah.id, what normally happens? Is your site produce leads for your business? I’m thinking a few, but I also guess you’d like more… data indicate that 7 out 10 who land on a site end up leaving without a trace. That's not ideal. Here’s a suggestion – what if there's an easy way for every visitor to raise their hand to get a phone call from you RIGHT AWAY… the second they visit your site and said, “call me now.” You can – Web Visitors Into Leads is a application widget that’s operates on your site, set to grab any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know INSTANTLY – so that you can chat to that lead as they’re actually browsing your site. CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to check out a Live Demo with Web Visitors Into Leads today to see exactly how it functions. Timing is crucial when it comes to engaging with leads – the gap between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes later can be massive – like 100 times superior! That’s why we built out our new SMS Text With Lead function… because after you’ve collected the visitor’s phone number, you can instantly start a text message (SMS) conversation. Think about the potential – even if you don’t seal a deal right away, you can stay connected with text messages for new deals, content links, even just “how you doing?” notes to build a relationship. Wouldn’t that be fantastic? CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to discover what Web Visitors Into Leads can offer for your business. You could be turning up to 100X more leads today! Tracey PS: Web Visitors Into Leads offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it also includes International Long Distance Calls. You have customers eager to chat with you at this moment… don’t keep them waiting. CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to experience Web Visitors Into Leads today. If you'd prefer to unsubscribe click here https://leadgenmaximize.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id Just a quick note - the name and email used in this email, Tracey and Dollery, are for representation and not real contact details. We value transparency and aim to ensure that you’re alerted! If you desire to come in touch with the real person responsible for this message, please go to our site, and we’ll link you with the correct individual.
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2024-06-19 06:21:20
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2024-06-30 07:48:30
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2024-07-01 09:19:46
Sandy Dry
Hello to anakpanah.id Administrator. it's Eric and I found anakpanah.id some moments ago. Looks great… now what? By that I mean, when someone such as myself discovers your website – either through searching or just bouncing around – what happens next? Do you getting a lot of leads from your site, or enough to make you happy? Frankly, most business websites come a bit short in terms of generating producing paying customers. Data indicate that 70% of a site’s visitors disappear and are gone forever only a moment. Here’s an idea… Why not make it it really EASY for any visitor who shows up to get a personal phone call from you as soon as they hit your site… This is possible – Web Visitors Into Leads is a tool that’s operates on your site, prepared to grab every visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It notifies you the minute they let you know they’re interested – so that you can chat to that lead as they’re really browsing your site. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to experience a Live Demo with Web Visitors Into Leads today to realize precisely how it operates. You’ll be surprised - the difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus a half-hour or more later could enhance your results 100-fold. It becomes even better… after you’ve collected their phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead capability, you can automatically start a text (SMS) discussion. Thus, even if you don’t close a deal instantly, you can keep in touch with text messages for fresh deals, content links, or even just “how you doing?” notes to create a relationship. Pretty sweet – AND effective. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to discover what Web Visitors Into Leads can provide for your business. You might be converting up to 100X more leads today! Eric PS: Web Visitors Into Leads provides a FREE 14 days trial – and it also includes International Long Distance Calls. You have customers waiting to chat with you right now… don’t leave them waiting. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to try Web Visitors Into Leads now. If you'd like to unsubscribe click here https://advanceleadgeneration.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id Only a brief note - the name and email used here, Sandy and Dry, are dummy data and not actual contact information. We respect transparency and wanted to ensure sure you’re aware! If you want to contact with the real person behind this message, kindly visit our website, and we’ll associate you with the correct individual.}
2024-07-01 20:58:18
Eric Jones
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2024-07-04 07:49:34
Rocco Roberge
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2024-07-05 11:25:35
Eric Jones
Dear anakpanah.id Webmaster! my name’s Eric and for just a second, imagine this… - Someone does a search and winds up at anakpanah.id. - They hang out for a minute to check it out. “I’m interested… but… maybe…” - And then they hit the back button and check out the other search results instead. - Bottom line – you got an eyeball, but nothing else to show for it. - There they go. This isn’t really your fault – it happens a LOT – studies show 7 out of 10 visitors to any site disappear without leaving a trace. But you CAN fix that. Web Visitors Into Leads is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know right then and there – enabling you to call that lead while they’re literally looking over your site. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to try out a Live Demo with Web Visitors Into Leads now to see exactly how it works. Time is money when it comes to connecting with leads – the difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes later can be huge – like 100 times better! Plus, now that you have their phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead feature you can automatically start a text (SMS) conversation… so even if you don’t close a deal then, you can follow up with text messages for new offers, content links, even just “how you doing?” notes to build a relationship. Strong stuff. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to discover what Web Visitors Into Leads can do for your business. You could be converting up to 100X more leads today! Eric PS: Web Visitors Into Leads offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling. You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting. CLICK HERE https://advanceleadgeneration.com to try Web Visitors Into Leads now. If you'd like to unsubscribe click here http://advanceleadgeneration.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id
2024-07-08 00:44:55
Deon Mosher
Dear anakpanah.id Manager. I am Deon and I’m guessing you’d prefer your webpage anakpanah.id to create additional leads. This is how: Visitor to Lead Widget is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to grab any viewer’s Name, Email address, and Phone Number. It signals you the moment they state they’re intrigued – so that you can speak with that prospect while they’re still present at anakpanah.id. Visitor to Lead Widget – CLICK HERE https://turboleadgeneration.com for a live demo at this moment. And now you’ve got their phone number, our new SMS Text With Lead feature enables you to start a text (SMS) discussion – answer questions, provide more info, and close a deal that way. If they don’t agree on your proposal then, simply follow-up with text messages for new deals, content links, or just how you doing? notes to build a connection. CLICK HERE https://turboleadgeneration.com to discover what Visitor to Lead Widget can do for your business. The distinction between connecting with someone within 5 minutes versus a half-hour means you could be turning up to 100X more leads now! Test Lead Conversion Software and obtain more leads now. Deon PS: The studies show 7 out of 10 viewers don’t stick around – you cannot afford to lose them! Lead Conversion Software offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it also includes International Long Distance Calling. You have customers eager to speak with you immediately… do not keep them waiting. CLICK HERE https://turboleadgeneration.com to test Lead Conversion Software now. If you'd like to unsubscribe click here https://turboleadgeneration.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id Merely a brief note - the names and email address applied here, Deon and Mosher, are placeholders and not actual contact information. We cherish candor and wished to assure you are aware of this! Should you want to connect with the actual one behind this note, do check out our site, and we’ll associate you with the appropriate person.
2024-07-12 17:45:26
Eric Jones
Hello anakpanah.id Admin! My name is Eric and unlike a lot of emails you might get, I wanted to instead provide you with a word of encouragement – Congratulations What for? Part of my job is to check out websites and the work you’ve done with anakpanah.id definitely stands out. It’s clear you took building a website seriously and made a real investment of time and resources into making it top quality. There is, however, a catch… more accurately, a question… So when someone like me happens to find your site – maybe at the top of the search results (nice job BTW) or just through a random link, how do you know? More importantly, how do you make a connection with that person? Studies show that 7 out of 10 visitors don’t stick around – they’re there one second and then gone with the wind. Here’s a way to create INSTANT engagement that you may not have known about… Web Visitors Into Leads is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know INSTANTLY that they’re interested – so that you can talk to that lead while they’re literally checking out anakpanah.id. CLICK HERE https://blazeleadgeneration.com to try out a Live Demo with Web Visitors Into Leads now to see exactly how it works. It could be a game-changer for your business – and it gets even better… once you’ve captured their phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead feature, you can automatically start a text (SMS) conversation – immediately (and there’s literally a 100X difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes.) Plus then, even if you don’t close a deal right away, you can connect later on with text messages for new offers, content links, even just follow up notes to build a relationship. Everything I’ve just described is simple, easy, and effective. CLICK HERE https://blazeleadgeneration.com to discover what Web Visitors Into Leads can do for your business. You could be converting up to 100X more leads today! Eric PS: Web Visitors Into Leads offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling. You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting. CLICK HERE https://blazeleadgeneration.com to try Web Visitors Into Leads now. If you'd like to unsubscribe click here https://blazeleadgeneration.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id
2024-07-14 21:06:15
Tracey Dollery
Hi to the anakpanah.id Owner. Awesome website! name’s Tracey, and I just came across your site - anakpanah.id - when browsing the net. Your site popped up on the top of the search results, so I looked you out. Looks like what you’re doing is amazing. But if you don’t mind me asking – once someone like me stumbles across anakpanah.id, what normally happens? Is your site produce leads for your business? I’m thinking a few, but I also guess you’d like more… data indicate that 7 out 10 who land on a site end up leaving without a trace. That's not ideal. Here’s a suggestion – what if there's an easy way for every visitor to raise their hand to get a phone call from you RIGHT AWAY… the second they visit your site and said, “call me now.” You can – Web Visitors Into Leads is a application widget that’s operates on your site, set to grab any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know INSTANTLY – so that you can chat to that lead as they’re actually browsing your site. CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to check out a Live Demo with Web Visitors Into Leads today to see exactly how it functions. Timing is crucial when it comes to engaging with leads – the gap between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes later can be massive – like 100 times superior! That’s why we built out our new SMS Text With Lead function… because after you’ve collected the visitor’s phone number, you can instantly start a text message (SMS) conversation. Think about the potential – even if you don’t seal a deal right away, you can stay connected with text messages for new deals, content links, even just “how you doing?” notes to build a relationship. Wouldn’t that be fantastic? CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to discover what Web Visitors Into Leads can offer for your business. You could be turning up to 100X more leads today! Tracey PS: Web Visitors Into Leads offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it also includes International Long Distance Calls. You have customers eager to chat with you at this moment… don’t keep them waiting. CLICK HERE https://leadgenmaximize.com to experience Web Visitors Into Leads today. If you'd prefer to unsubscribe click here https://leadgenmaximize.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=anakpanah.id Just a quick note - the name and email used in this email, Tracey and Dollery, are for representation and not real contact details. We value transparency and aim to ensure that you’re alerted! If you desire to come in touch with the real person responsible for this message, please go to our site, and we’ll link you with the correct individual.
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